A Bride's Battle!

I Have Less Than 3 Months To Look Fabulous!

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  • Name: twinkletoes807
  • City: East Islip
  • State: NY
  • Country: US

My Weight Loss

Height:
Start weight: 213.20lb
Current weight: 199.60lb
Goal weight: 145.00lb
Lost to date: 13.60lb
Remaining: 54.60lb

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The Dress Zips!

Please excuse my absence, as I was having a meltdown!  All is well in bridal land, so have no fear! After I last blogged, I came to the conclusion that I could not stick to a low carb diet, especially since I did not see real results. This prompted the eating of a couple of pints of Ben n' Jerry's over the past two weeks!  So, it was Friday of last week, when I was feeling bloated and chubby as ever, that I come home to a voicemail from my bridal shop!!  My consultant tells me, in a cheery voice, that my dress is in! "Oh shit," I think to myself. The consultant goes on to inform me that the manufacturer may have made a mistake with the length of my gown [when ordered, I was measured hollow to hem so that my dress comes full altered for length, due to the intricate work at the bottom of the dress and therefore, cannot be hemmed!] The consultant advises me to call and make an appointment asap, so that I have time to send the dress back if necessary!! Ughh!  

The problem with that scenario is #1: I do not have my shoes yet! When I got measured for my gown, I was supposed to have my shoes but didn't, so I wore a plain pair from the shop with a 2 and 3/4" heel. I was expected to get shoes with the same heel height for my wedding day!! I needed to go out and find shoes immediately!! Problem #2: I have not lost any weight since I ordered the dress in March, and may have gained weight!!  Between yo-yoing and gorging myself on Cold Stone every once in a while [see below post!] I did not loss any weight and it shows! The problem here is that when I ordered my gown, I was running on the treadmill and was doing well with my healthy eating. Then I started having foot problems, stopped running and starting eating crap! When the consultant took my measurements, my hips put me in the size 20 dress [and more money for the extra size!] but my waist and bust had me in the size 18. Since my dress is an A-line type, and would not be fitted to my hips, I convinced the consultant to order me the 18, thinking that I would lose!! Wrong!! 

Well, that's the background! Fast forward to this past Monday. I found 2 and 3/4" heels to bring with me and I tried on the gown. It friggin zipped!! Hallelujah!! The length was a bit shorter than it should have been, so to correct that, I tried it on with a less full slip- and that did the trick! Problem now is... the disgusting back fat that is blubbering over my gown! Ugh! I knew I should have stayed away from strapless!! Who do I think I am? Gisele?! Well, it is what it is. What can I do, other than work out and try to get rid of it as much as I can?! 

Sure, just add the exercising and diet stress to my overflowing plate that already contains- one bum left foot, trying to close on our Dream House by Mid-July, getting all of the wedding details taken care of, go to work full time and pack up the house!! I want to pull my hair out of my head!! Que sera' sera'! One day at a time! I am going to focus on breathing! 

Today is officially 3 months until our wedding day and exactly 2 months until my first fitting!! The seamstress said that August 14th is the absolutely latest that they can start alterations and have the dress completed on time! Let hope that I can get my act together and make some magic happen in the next 60 days!! Cross your fingers and toes for me folks! I need all of the prayers and hugs I can get!! Until next time... 

Comments to this post:

Holy Moly!

That is some major STRESS!  So now it's time for Plan B!!  Ok, so the low carb thing didn't work...how about trying high fiber.  One of my best buds has lost a lot of weight focusing from that angle.  When she's in weight loss mode, she eats a lot of stuff from Trader Joes like high fiber bran muffins, this grain/rice stuff....oh, and she'll even pop a sweet potato in the microwave at lunch.  Then she only eats salads for dinner...drinks TONS of water and lots of cardio.  She lost 40 pounds during that time that I was doing the low carb thing and lost my weight.  Hope this helps!  BTW~Love your dress!!!

Stunning

The dress is absolutely gorgeous!  And now that you've seen it for real, worn it and know that you want it to be perfect, you've got all the inspiration in the world to make the weight loss happen. 

Thanks for you comment on my blog - you're right, it's important to be aware.  I still feel safe here, despite what happened to my friend, just know that I need to be more careful at night than I might have been otherwise!

Wonderful!

I'm so glad the dress zips.  And it sounds like you need to calm down and take a few deep breaths.  Of course, that's impossible before a wedding.  But relax and enjoy it some.  I'm glad you're not doing low carb anymore.  I think that's WAY too hard to stick with.  And not worth it since you weren't seeing results.  I know it works for some people, though, but I love my bread!  :-)

I know how you feel

I'm so happy to hear that some one else is as stressed as I am.  I am getting married August 17th, 9 weeks from today.  Saying the time in weeks make it seem so close.  Anyway, stick with it.  I've noticed the better I feel about myself, the better I feel about everything else.  I was really nervous about trying on my dress too, thank god it fit, now I'm nervous about losing any weight, but I would much rather feel good about myself in a bathing suit.  Hope this weekend goes good for you!

Slow down, You move too fast...

I am so happy that the dress fits and is perfect! And it is so beautiful! So you have 60 days huh? Why not join me in using these next 6-8 weeks to our advantage? Close out summer with a BANG!

I know you can do it. You definitely have a mountainload on your plate, but if you prioritize just right, it's all doable. Small chunks and don't sweat the small stuff.

BREATHE IN, BREATHE OUT!!!

OMG!  I'm exhausted just reading your update!!!!!!  WOW!  At least the dress zipped up!!!!!    Just focus on being healthy and staying sane!  I don't envy you the stress at all!  At least all the stress is leading to good things!  Good luck with everything and keep me posted! 

-Bethany




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