CELEBRATING ME ALL YEAR LONG

I've done for all...now I will do this for myself!

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  • Name: Tulips
  • City: Miami
  • State: FL
  • Country: US

My Weight Loss

Height:
Start weight: 242.00lb
Current weight: 211.00lb
Goal weight: 150.00lb
Lost to date: 31.00lb
Remaining: 61.00lb

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Good Morning Everyone.  Hoping you had a relaxing and exciting weekend.  The day here is South Florida is absolutely beautiful.  This morning it was in the high 50s, but the sun is so beautiful, not a cloud in the sky, windy...just perfect.  Hope everyone is safe from that terrible Northeastern storm....Stay safe all!

I wonder if any of you saw Victoria Principal (The Dallas actress...remember?) .  Anyway, she was on Good Morning America this morning.  She was talking about how she turned a negative, an allergic reaction to makeup on the set of Dallas into a BILLION dollar makeup business.  She really seems amazing.  She has not had the easy life it appears.  Last year she broke up with her husband of 26 years, says that 2006 was the worst year of her life.  She gave herself time to grief the relationship, and now she can happily say 2007 is the best year ever...and the year is still a new one.  But it was something she said in the interview which most impressed me.....

"All those books about finding yourself, what are you, under some tree?  The fact is you have to look within yourself, who you are, what you like about yourself, what you don't like, and create yourself , " Victoria said. 

That is so right....so many times we all find ourselves being what we think everyone expects us to be.  Wanting to please everyone else, wanting to be the best for everyone except ourselves....  Like the saying says...If you are not happy with yourself then you cannot serve the world. 

So on this beautiful Monday.  I continue My Year Long Celebration of Myself.  I am creating myself, and to be honest with you...I'm loving the results.  Everyday I like more and more who I am becoming... empowering myself by placing myself as a priority is the best feeling.  I still of course care and love my children, my family, my responsibilities...but it is all in how we prioritize.  Yes I can be a mom...but I am going to be a fulfilled, healthy and happy one. 

Yesterday I cleaned out my closet...at my husband persistence that I go clothes shopping (he hates for me to wear baggy clothes, especially pants)....I knew that if a shopping trip was in the near future, I'd better donate all the clothes which I will not be using.  So 3 huge black garbage bags filled with practically  new clothes went to charity.  Boy did that feel good.  I still want to lose more weight before shopping...believe it or not I still have my closet filled with clothes, so I'm in no rush.  I always kept many different size clothes, just in case I go up or down in size.  Not this time, this time I'm not going back....so as they become large on me...out they go! 

Okay guys, that is it for today....  Everyone enjoy your Monday-

Stay Strong, Stay Focused....Today is a new day to create a little more of ourselves.  Have fun!

Comments to this post:

couldn't agree more

Well said.  You can't take care of others until your own needs are fulfilled first.  That isn't selfish - it makes you a better person.  Of course, some people go overboard on themselves (naming no MAN in particular).

Doesn't it feel great to get rid of fat clothes?  I can't wait for spring to settle in so I can go through my stuff.

Have a great day!

Angel

Being a Mom

I think that when you better yourself and put yourself on your list of priorities then you become a better mother.  I think that I am anyway.  At least a happier one!  I know, I'm putting off buying anymore clothes as well until I lose more weight.  I will "suffer", lol, wearing my baggy pants for awhile. 

Great job.  Keep it up!

Keep on celebrating you...

You deserve it!!  I need to go shopping too.  All of my clothes are falling off and I don't know what I'm waiting for.  I guess I'm trying to make sure that it's real this time!!  Well, have fun shopping and have a great week!!

That's right

and you will be a better wife, mother, etc if you do take care of you!  Excellent post!!  Have a great week!!

You said it!

You have to be the change you want to see! No someone elses dream, only yours! Im glad that you are loving the results, you should be!

I know all about the baggy clothes! I hate it too, but it does get $$$. However, you can't stop me from shopping! I love to shop! I hope you have a fun time shopping for new clothes!

Have a wonderful Tuesday!

You're right

We definitely get caught up in living for other people.  I'm slowly realizing that I'm the one that has deal with me in the end...so what do I care what "they" think.

Might I suggest reading The Four Agreements by Miguel Ruiz.  Phenomenal book!

Thanks for the positive attitude!

What a nice blog you have!  I enjoyed reading your entry today and definitely agree with taking care of yourself first.  I always feel guilty doing something for me before doing something for the kids and husband.  Why is that?  I should make sure that things are good for me too, right?  You certainly opened my eyes to something I really hadn't thought much about.  I  would imagine it would be like a pyramid...you take care of yourself and all those under you will get take care of also.

Thanks for the positive attitude!  It is extremely helpful!




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