Making a Change

Attempting a healthier life

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  • Name: texasmommy
  • City: Fort Worth
  • Region: Texas
  • Country: United States

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Height: 170.2cm
Start weight: 217.00lb
Current weight: 207.00lb
Goal weight: 145.00lb
Lost to date: 10.00lb
Remaining: 62.00lb

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Been busy!

I've been here a few times when I got a second but haven't had the time to blog.  Still doing pretty good with my weight though.  If I could only stay off the scale!
 
It's been a stressful few days.  I think I'm just driving myself crazy with the Jacob situation.  I talked to my husband about my concerns and he agreed for the most part, although he thinks I'm jumping to a diagnosis.  We talked to his teacher about it (he's already in a class at school for delayed preschoolers).  She understands our concerns, but she also reminded us of the huge progress he's made over the last year.  She's worked with a lot of kids over the years, both with and without autism.  She said on occasion she gets concerned herself, but then he quickly breaks that with all of the typical stuff that he does.  She doesn't think we need to jump to getting him evaluated again.  That we're already doing everything we need to do for him, and we don't want to put an inaccurate label on him that will follow him the rest of his life, even if he does catch up.  She LOVES Jacob and I know she only wants what's best for him, so I trust what she says.  She is right though - he's already in the class, in speech therapy and we work with him a lot at home.  We'll see what happens!  No matter what, I love my kiddos more than anything in the world.
 
ANYWAYS!  I feel much better since the caffeine headaches are GONE.  My body feels better since I'm not eating a ton of junk.  I do need to start working out to relieve some of my stress.  I know it will make me feel better, but it's just GETTING to the gym that's hard.  I need to clone myself!

Comments to this post:

I understand your concerns

I think his teacher has a good idea. Do what you can for him, and give him some time. And make time for yourself. By taking care of yourself, you set a good example to your kids; that mommy's needs are as important as their own. I don't deny that you have a tough row to hoe—but you can handle it, you really can. Have you joined an Ausberger's support group? I know they are available in a lot of communities, and there is an online one as well. The best to you.

With you every step of the way....

I'm glad my thoughts about Jacob's diagnosis weren't completely off base.  I hope you can be at peace about giving him time.  It sounds like you're doing the right things for him.  It's still hard, though, isn't it?  




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