Sad Dad

Working to be my best for my wife and kids

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  • Name: bigguy
  • City: Livonia
  • Region: Michigan
  • Country: United States

My Weight Loss

Height: 180.3cm
Start weight: 278.00lb
Current weight: 247.00lb
Goal weight: 190.00lb
Lost to date: 31.00lb
Remaining: 57.00lb

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I re-read my post from Tuesday and realized it came off as pretty negative.  I guess I was still feeling dumb about the nutritional slips last week.  The truth is that things have been going pretty well, all things considered.

It seems that 20 lbs was the magic number for other people to start noticing the weight loss.  I got a ton of comments from people all of a sudden last week.  That was a nice surprise.

The funny thing is that my wife has lost more than I have, it is VERY noticable, but people aren't making any comments to her.  She is getting a bit frustrated thinking that I am lying or exagerating to her about the changes I see in her.  I have tried to chalk it up to the fear that most people seem to have about mentioning a woman's weight in ANY context, even a complimentary one.  Some people have said things to her like "did you get a haircut?" or "is that a new outfit?".  I think this is their way of letting her know they see a difference, opening the door for her to talk about weight loss, if she wants to.

But what do I know...

 

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you can introduce her to this website, if you haven't already???? You are doing awesome, but you need to remember men do have an easier time losing weight (in general) than women do.  Between ovulation, menstruation, and just plain hormones, it just seems to really give men an edge over us.  While we are thrilled that our men are getting healthy, it also nags at us, that it should be as easy for us. 

you're support of her needs to come across very sincere also.  A few simple words of encouragement, (which I see you do) really do mean alot.  Don't stop telling her, even if she doesn't quite believe it yet.  It will all fall into place.

Don't worry about the donut.  This whole experience is something you have to do forever.  And you can allow yourself little treats now and again.  It's all about the moderation....not a whole box of Krispy Kreme.

Keep up the awesome work, and keep yourselves encouraged.  What greater gift can you give each other, than being around for a lifetime.




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