I'm 19 years old and am a mother to a 3 month old little girl. Her dad and I have been engaged for 2 years this month and really want to plan a wedding this year sometime. BUT i want to desperately lose weight before then. I have struggled with weight my whole life and need a little support to get me going. I'm very motivated to do this now. I'm tired of hating what I see in the mirror and bein embarrassed when my fiance looks at me and about goin out and all.. its ridiculous. I also want to get in shape for my daughter so I can do things with her and so she will be healthy herself. Most of my family has weight issues and health problems related to it. Im also on a birth control "orthrotricyclen" which made me quickly gain 20 pounds..will it get better or do i need to get off of it??