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  • Name: moody
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Height: 157.5cm
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08/28/2009 23:42

Sabotaged??

I wonder why it is that when I announce to my husband that I am going to be eating healthily he promptly goes shopping for chips, sweets, ice cream etc?
 
Then yesterday he makes cupcakes. I have talked to him about this for years. He always denies that it is an attempt to sabotage my attempts at healthy eating and weight loss.
 
I REALLY don't have enough willpower to just say no.If it is in the house I will be eating it. BUT not this time. I admit, I have been eating some ice cream at night and ate 2 cupcakes yesterday but there are still 30ish cupcakes and I WILL NOT eat them!!!!

Posted By: moody
Comments to this post:
08/28/2009 11:47

do you think

he is sobbotaging you and wants to keep some extra pounds on you?

just you go for it and pretend the cupcakes have maggits insdie... youll not want them then!

Posted By: Titaniastar
08/29/2009 12:12

:(

It may very well be sabotage.  Particularly if he is overweight himself.
 
I think you need to sit down and talk to him about it.  Find out if you losing weight does bother him (my DH is very honest about the fact that he does not want me to lose weight).  Be specific in how he can help and support you.
 
((hugs))

Posted By: raspberrycordial



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