I'm back....

and not far from where I started!  I'm irritated at myself.  My biggest problem is my schedule, this year has not been consistant.  I started working from home and it feels like I'm at work all the time!  Not to mention I can't even go to the gym anymore because I have a friend.. if that's what you want to call her (I'm beginning to question that) but anyways that's taking advantage of me right now and I just have a hard time telling her NO.  She asked me if her kids could come over after school for a week until she finds a daycare... remind you I work from home but I do have set hours and still work with Manufactures so dealing with extra kids is not easy.  We'll it's been 9 weeks already and I doubt she is even looking for child care cause I'm not charging her a dime so why would she?  Then she has the nerve to call me and yell at me cause "HER" kids didn't get their home work done.  I told her that's not my problem, if you don't like it fire me... My kids know that when they come home homework is to be done and that's that!  They do their homework and when I ask her kids if they done theirs they tell me yes.. I'm not going to fight with them nor check it... for 1 I'm not their babysitter.. she ain't paying me.  2... I'm still at work and it's hard enough making the quite down while I'm on the phone with important calls... 3 they are not my kids 4 I'm not their babysitter!!!  I'm just about irritated.  I can't go to the gym because her kids are here and I get distracted when they're here and I end up having to work late.. and my so called friend.. not even a thank you.. just a "WHY AREN'T YOU MAKING MY KIDS DO THEIR HOMEWORK"... Not to mention she use to call me every morning, lunch break, and then go to the gym with me after work before I started keeping her kids.. now it's just like she avoids me at all cost.. weither it's cause she feels guilty or I'm irritating her cause I'm not reaching her standards with her kids.. I don't care either way it's pissing me off...   Especially when she goes to happy hour Thursday's & Friday's.. which I use to go with her.. but I'm stuck with her kids.. and she trys to play it off like she's working late.  I know her better than that.  I just think she's past the point of taking advantage of me and yeah i'm tired of it.. ooo did i mention I would take her kids to football & cheerleading practice 3 days a week so she could work late/happy hour?  I just need to tell her she needs to do something else with her kids.. then I can get back on my schedule, be a lot more productive at work, a lot less stressed.. and get back to the gym.  It doesn't only affect me it affects my whole family. sigh!