My pick for Movie date night
I told Bill this is the movie I'd like to go see tonight:
Bill: Does anything blow up?
me: No
Bill: are there guns or weapons?
me: No
Bill: Does anyone get killed?
me: No honey, it's a love story about two people who found each other when they were at a bad time....sort of like us....
Bill: 
OK
I'll let you know how it goes.
Not much to report on the weight loss front....just watching what I eat....need to get more exercise....but getting the house ready for MIL to move in is eating up spare time.....at least those are active things.
Speaking of MIL, her friend that takes her to the Dr. and shopping...etc....brought her up to see the house.....that was a good thing because she just was not visualizing the space.....so now MIL is more excited and looking forward to the move.....I'm sure we will have some issues......and I may be here venting now and then....but in the long run it will be better for all of us in the long run.......and I feel bad that I'm so overly suspicious of everyone.....but I've heard and read so much that I just can not help it....but yesterday this friend who drove her (this person is in her 40's, can not find a job, and lives with her mother and is the ex-girlfriend of a former neighbor...who was really weird)....I would ask my MIL something and she would look at the friend before she answered....or the friend would answer.....I found that a little controlling.....I voiced that concern to Bill.....and I swear...sometimes he is like a bull in a china shop...so he asks her how much money how much money she gives this friend....OK....lets not be subtle and get feelings hurt.....anyway.....that is another reason to bring her up here....she is such an easy target......freely gives money to anyone who does anything, and easly lets others make her decisions.
Another story about Bill....and not being subtle......I know a shared this story before...but it is a good one....last Easter, I told him I was concerned about his daughter....she had gained so much weight in such a short time....and it had been a while since she showered judging by the BO and greasyness of her hair....and those were red flags for issues.....but we needed to be careful in how we addressed it...as not to cause any hurt....so Mr. bull in the china shop calls her and asks "are you depressed?" Geez......of course she says no.
Anyway...that's life in my world.