05/29/2008 20:12
break up
My boyfriend and I broke up last night. I am not going to go too much into it because I know I will start crying at any minute if I think about it for too long. I guess it was just a matter of time. We did not have a bad relationship by any means, but we were just 2 completely different people with 2 completely different sets of values. I feel like I have grown so much in the past 2 (well kind of 3... it is complicated) years and he is kind of at a stand still. We both decided it was not best to stay with eachother. It sucks because I do not want to lose him, but I just cant bare to see him or talk to him as "friends" right now, it would just be too hard for me. I don't know... whatever. It still hasn't really hit me yet, I am just kind of trying to stay busy and not think about it too much.
Posted By: justkeepswimming
05/29/2008 21:38
I know it sucks...
As hard as it seems right now...you're going to get through this.
05/30/2008 01:09
Go you!
Life is strange... but this is probably for the better. And I think this is the perfect time to focus on yourself and your weightloss goals.
Enjoy the newfound "Jessica" time, and congrats on starting BFL again.
Roxy
05/30/2008 12:24
....IS SO hard to do...
There is an 80's song about breaking up, it is hard to do, though for now gain a new focus, your life, not the life that the two of you had. This way, nothing can stand in your way to success.
Congrats on trying to get out of a bad(?) situation, i know that for a while, it will be hard, just use that to help fuel your BFL challange.
Good luck
Steve (SoF)
05/30/2008 20:16
Hey there
I'm sorry your heart is hurting.
05/31/2008 21:46
I understand..
I got "dumped" almost a year ago June 11th will be one year and 2 years to the day I met him. Yes he dumped me at work in the parking lot on what would of be our one year anniversery. Its a LONG complicated story. Like you said we also didn't work and at the time I didn't see that and I was devastated and so heart broken and I am still healing. I miss him ( he lives in ohio now) and I love him but I'm better off but at the time I thought my world was over and my life was over. But now I have a great job doing what I love, a new car and soon a new me. I wouldn't have this if he and I where still together. I won't dog him but our values and goals weren't the same and I just couldn't take care of him anymore, financially and some mentaly anymore. He was in his mid 20's but was acting like he just turned 21. But I learned from it and that i wasn't the end of my world and I was going to be ok! Keep yourself busy that worked for me.
take care!!
Jennie
06/02/2008 10:04
Sorry!
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06/06/2008 12:45
:)
I hope all is better. Just wanted to stop by and let you know that I miss reading what you write.
Take care,
Roxy
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