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Maintaining and working to reach personal goals!

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  • Name: Gvmemoment
  • City: Washington
  • Region: Arkansas
  • Country: United States

My Weight Loss

Height: 172.7cm
Start weight: 219.50lb
Current weight: 169.20lb
Goal weight: 150.00lb
Lost to date: 50.30lb
Remaining: 19.20lb

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Maintenance

There have been a lot of comments RE:maintenance in response to my last
several posts. It has made me realize that while many of us that are in
maintenance, writing here about out daily ups and downs, I have not seen (at
least lately) a post about how maintenance in general is going. How our
daily lives shake out... "what maintenance is like" for a lack of better
words.

First, a definition:
maintain One entry found for *maintain*.
Pronunciation: mAn-'tAn
Function: *transitive verb*
Etymology: Middle English *mainteinen,* from Anglo-French *maintenir,
maynteiner,* from Medieval Latin *manutenEre,* from Latin *manu tenEre* to
hold in the hand
*1* *:* to keep in an existing state (as of repair, efficiency, or validity)
*:* preserve from failure or decline
*2* *:* to sustain against opposition or danger *:* uphold and defend maintain* a position>
*3* *:* to continue or persevere in *: CARRY
ON,
KEEP UP * composure>
*4 a* *:* to support or provide for *b* *:
SUSTAIN * *maintain*life>
* *
In it's strictest sense, maintenance is about keeping an existing state
(achieved healthy weight, general health, physical wellness, being in shape,
etc). But if one keeps on in this static state of simply keeping the status
quo after achieving ones goals there is little chance of long term
successful "Health Maintenance". Simply sustaining the efforts put forth
during active weight loss are not going to cut it. Everything in life is in
a constant state of flux. Life happens---changes come about, and all of a
sudden things are not quite the way they were before. The ability to deal
with the changes---challenges even, and come out ahead is vital. Even if
nothing ever changed, thinking the same old same old is going to see you
through is not going to work because lets face it... we get bored easily.

It is about carrying on and keeping up the good work, but also keeping it
fresh, setting and working towards new goals, and continually adapting to
new situations and sometimes setbacks. For me, the key is knowing how to
adapt to the curve balls life throws us from time to time.

At the beginning of the year I listed out a nice long list of goals. One of
those was to train for and finish a triathlon. I was really excited about
doing this, and couldn't wait to start training.... Then my foot happened.
All of a sudden working out in any way similar to what I had been was out
the window. I slid a bit, and didn't work out at all really for a month or
so. When I did go back, running seemed out of the question... and my passion
for participating in a Tri had seemed to wane. Instead of getting down on
myself for not being able to---or really having the drive to do a Tri, I
decided to shift focus. Now I am working on a weight training program AND
devoting more time to Yoga. Both seem like areas I can get a lot of rewards
out of---so shifting goals was fine, and I am not a failure for giving up on
my original ones---I am simply realistic and adapting to my life as it
changes around me. This to me is the essence of maintenance---keeping on the
ball and rolling with the punches--Not forgetting where we came from, but
not trying to stay in the same place either.

Right now I am working out 6 days a week---3 days of cardio, 3 days of
abs/yoga. I am eating about 1500 calories a day. I am staying away from
sugar and alcohol. I am not eating bread. This is working for me now--to get
back to "good", as I like to call it, after the foot setback, and the Mexico
trip. I will go back to my whole wheat toast with natural PB, or my
occasional glass of wine with dinner.... once I am back and feel
comfortable.... because that is how I work maintenance... as a constant
check up and adjustment to the status quo... not the end of the journey.


"The future is not some place we are going, but one we are
creating. The paths to it are not found but made, and the
activity of making them changes both the maker and the
destination."

John Schaar

Comments to this post:

I like definitions 3 and 4a

"[T]o continue or persevere"--not just to continue doing the same things, but to continue the gradual adjustments that you made all through losing and to persevere through life changes that are unrelated to or interfere with a healthy lifestyle.

Also, "to support and provide for" your body, including providing enough of the right foods to stop losing (support a healthy weight) without putting unhealthy weight back on, and providing exercise, including new challenges to keep your body and mind interested.

Thanks for sharing!

Completely off topic:  am totally steamed because at 5 when I was about to ditch out for yoga a meeting was called for 5:30.  Boo, hiss!  Must try to do home practice tonight, I guess.

Thanks

No that is not me on the homepage.  I am trying to get my info together to be on the homepage, but am too busy with kids, not much time to stop and do that.  Maybe one day.  I like your blog on Maintenance.  My biggest hurdle with maintenance is the acceptance of consistancy.  Yesterday, I did not have a good day, but I am back on program.  Wasn't very hungry in the evening.  Today, I will have a great day!!!!!  I hope!!!!

Sounds like a plan!

We always need goals, small as they may be, even after losing the weight.  A glass of red wine after dinner is a good start - full of antioxidants, plus it tastes great!  Wine is my dessert after supper - and my reward for sticking to my weight loss plan all day.  Have a great day!

Angel

Interesting

I never thought of it as a constant journey once you get there, I thought of it as the end as first, but now you help me change that. Thanks for sharing!

Thanks

Thanks for stopping by.  Yes those Girl scout cookies are the devil.  We bought 20 boxes since my dd is a Brownie.  I still have about 8 boxes to go.  Mostly the kids eat them, but now and again they call my name a bit too loudly.

hmmm... food for thought

Very interesting post!

I really believe it is important to frame things in a positive way.  For example, I haven't thought of my weight loss so much as 'weight loss,' but as 'progress towards a healthy weight'.  I honestly think that this kind of frame has helped me get to a healthy weight.

But (there is always a but isn't there) I've been struggling with the last 10-11 lbs and your post on what 'maintain' actually means has really made me step back and think about what it is I want.  I even wrote about it on my own blog 'new days' if you'd like to read it.

Anyway, thanks for sharing your thoughts - I'm definitely coming back to read you blog again!

xxN




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