I am here....and lighter still
just had a bit of an odd weight loss patch, london screwed it up, put on a pound or so initially, but it came off in a few days, then i didnt loose anything for a week, and now finally im back on track....
so i have lost a whole stone, and 4lbs into my second stone loss, 2lbs till i beat myown challenge....and im very excited.
i just wanted to post this for a memory, i put it on a forum, and got interesting replies, but when im thinnner i wonder if my opinion will change?
YESTERDAY
I was sat in our canteen today with a group of friends, one who is a model (but very modest and lovely and just looks after herself), and she happened to point out a lady who was extremly overweight, must have been a good 20stone eating a plate of chips and fish and everything batterd and nasty.
She said how she feel fattest but wants to go over and help her not to do that. I understood what she meant but we then ended up discussing, when is it right to intervene with other peoples lives, and just because some of us care about our bodies, and they way we eat/live, does that mean other people need to be told?
maybe now because i care about my body, and my life i am more aware of others, but as i said to my friends, there were times that i would have happily snuck into a big pile of chips when i was bigger and not even thought twice about it.
i could not help feel awfull for the lady, because she must feel how the rest of us do when we are/were bigger, everyone must be looking at me cause im eating fatty food, thinking,'god shes huge she sould go on a diet'.
she may have an eating condition, yes, or a weight problem, but i could not help think about this subject of conversation, and see what other, dieters opinion was on this matter.
If food makes her happy, and eating what she wants, then who could ever tell her to stop what she is doing. NO ONE, i suppose that free-will all over,
but i wish when i wa sgetting bigger one of my close loved ones was strong enough to say, your getting a bit larger, are you happy with this?
i dunno, im confussed, any other opinions
