What energy do you put out?
I read something interesting in Dr. Wayne Dyer's 10 Secrets for Success and Inner Peace, on p.41, it is as follows:
One of the lessons I continue to learn and practice is that the universe responds with the same energy that we send out. If you attract a lot of people who want to take advantage of you, you need to consider what you are doing to attract victimizers in your life. If you run into anger a lot, explore the angry thoughts you have inside you. If your consciousness is a "Gimme! Gimme! Gimme! energy, you'll atrract all manners of demanding energies into your life.
This is part of the Awareness that we attune when on our weightloss journey and I have grown more aware in every area of my life, thanks to losing the weight and loving me. Thanks Helen for introducing me to this book.