Da dah da dah DONE
First of all, I hate it when I feel skinny and the scale says something different! My 14's are hanging on me, though, so I will ignore the dial and check it again in a few days.
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Today is the day of my appointment with a Family Law Attorney, therefore the title of today's ramblings.
I am so excited, so happy, so elated, to finally feel as if I am free to divorce my unhappiness of the past 10 years. We are agreeing on almost everything, including that it's time to let go.
It didn't even bother me much to see him this past weekend. It was our son's 10th birthday, and I told him he was free to drop by the Go-cart track we were going to. I felt some minor annoyance at his lingering presence, but he got the hint and left me alone. It's hard for him to remember that I am not his wife anymore. He still tries to be touchy-feely, and I am not cool with that. Hand-shakes are more than enough for me.
Whew. It feels good. I am not even dreading the legal proceedings (yet), because we've been separated for so long, it's just the legal snip. All of the other stuff has been dealt with.
I have a lot less baggage than one would assume. Ready, set, let go. Silly movie- but the premise is good.
So, yes, I can say, I am done. Physically, Mentally, Spiritually, I am divorced, now, I just need to get the courts to agree with me!
I'll weigh-in in a few days. Hope to see some fresh, new, happy blogs from all of you!
